Reliving the Meenakshi Amma Experience of faith..
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Thursday, 1 May 2025

Saint Joseph

 

"The Carpenter's Recollection" 

I was born in Bethlehem, city of David, the city of my ancestors. But I left it behind, carrying little more than my tools and my dreams. Bethlehem had memory, yes, but not enough work for a man trying to make an honest living. Nazareth, though small and rough around the edges, offered opportunity. The Romans were building, and so were the Herodians—roads, fortresses, palaces. Just a short journey from the growing city of Sepphoris, Nazareth drew tradesmen like me who could shape wood, stone, and future.

In Nazareth, I hoped to shape more than just wood. I hoped to find a life of peace, of purpose. And then I met her—Mary. There was a stillness about her, a strength that didn't demand attention but drew it nonetheless. I saw in her someone who could make a home out of a workshop, a family out of faith.

Then came the moment that shook the ground beneath me.

She was with child. And I was not the father.

I will not pretend that I understood. No man would. I felt betrayed, bewildered—until the dream came. The angel didn’t explain everything. Just enough: “Do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife.” It was enough. I trusted the voice, and more than that, I trusted her.

What followed was not easy. Whispers followed us through the market. Gossip curls its way through small towns like smoke, and it choked me more than once. But we stayed. We worked. We waited.

Then came the census. We returned to Bethlehem—not for celebration, but registration. Mary was heavy with child, and I was heavy with worry. I knocked on door after door, but no one opened. I was a carpenter, not a man of standing. And so, we ended up where the animals slept. There, in the straw and silence, I held the light of the world in my arms.

No midwife, no priest. Just me, trying to comfort Mary, trying to swaddle the impossible in cloths I had sewn myself.

And then, danger. Herod’s blade came hunting. I had another dream—Egypt. I gathered what little we had and ran. A man will do anything to keep his family safe, even cross deserts into strange lands.

Egypt was not welcoming. Foreign tongue, foreign gods, no kin to turn to. But I found work—odd jobs, heavy lifting, doors to fix, wheels to mend. I stood outside temples I did not enter, waiting for someone to need a hammer or hands. I found bread. I made sure we had enough.

We returned when it was safe, but never quite the same. I raised Jesus in Nazareth, where people never forgot the odd beginnings. Still, I taught Him my craft—how to work with patience, with care, how to respect each grain in the wood, each rhythm in life.

I am remembered as “the just man.” But I was just a man—working, wondering, waiting. What carried me through was not strength or certainty, but love. Love for Mary. Love for the boy who grew into the world’s hope. And love for the quiet dignity of honest work.


Historical Note:

Nazareth in the 1st century was a modest village in Galilee, but it was close to Sepphoris—a Romanized city undergoing heavy construction during the time of Joseph’s life. Historians believe this could have drawn skilled laborers from surrounding areas. Unlike Bethlehem, which had political and religious significance but limited economic opportunity, Nazareth’s proximity to Roman urban projects made it attractive for tradesmen like Joseph.


A Message for Today:

To those seeking work, facing rejection, or holding families together on small wages—Joseph's journey is yours too. Quiet, faithful persistence. Work done in the background. Love that builds futures out of uncertainty. In a world that praises flash and fame, may you find strength in the steady hands of the carpenter.


 

Wednesday, 24 February 2021

Nostalgic Sunday mornings of Tropical Winter


In the cool and gentle mornings of January, I like waking up early on a Sunday morning getting ready and driving all the way to Vallarapdam when it is still dark for the 6.15 am mass. In the tropical winter months sun rises at 6.30 am and the mornings are so adorably pleasant.  No doubt, the morning rides through the empty roads singing aloud becomes one of the most cherished memories of the first months of the New Year. 
There is a tea shop just outside the highway on the first turn to the village of Vallarpadam, stopping there to have a hot cup of tea along with a  warm "Mulaku Vada" (a snack made of dough mixed with green chilly and onions and fried in oil) with many a early risers who stand around the tea-shop talking sipping their morning tea adds to the joyous experience of my early morning visit to the church. 
Though Pandemic has broken our means of life it has also taught us to value of little joys which in fact adds up to our lives beautifully. 





 

Thursday, 22 October 2020

Gratefulness


Is our intellect added to us after we are born?
Intellect is not something that is added to us later. It must have existed in the self inorder to have manifested itself, later. 

"The tree must have been contained in the seed or could not have sprung out of it". 
So too, intellect must have been contained in the self from the beginning. 

With this context introduced, please go to the words of Jesus and also the Psalms:
"Gratefulness is the greatest offering that humans can offer to God."

Our intellect is the one that dissects all our emotions. The emotions are already pre-existing in our self. It merely come to us according to the situation and we experience it. 

The way we feel about our work, before, after and inbetween...all of that we are merely experiencing. With our intellect we work to avoid faults and failures in our work preparation and execution. The aspect of preparation in itself is an emotion we are experiencing. So is joy, apprehensions, disappointments etc..

Let us work our intellect well, discern our emotions and be grateful to God for the whole of it. That way we will be always above the emotional impacts that life brings us. 

Tuesday, 22 September 2020

Sunday with Mary and Meenakshi Amma

The rain was raging all through the week. Fortunately, on Sunday, at noon, the sky cleared for a long while and I could join those who visited Vallarpadam. There were quite a few though the church continued to remain closed. Meanwhile in the parish church behind the Basilica a local sweethearts were getting married and the whole event in the Corona safety settings became so novel an idea in its simplicity. 


Sometimes, I wonder, what is that make me go to Vallarapadam Basilica on every Sunday and whenever possible. Is it the service or the miracles or the grandeur of the church itself...
I guess its an emotion I feel, the carefree, happy, secured, peaceful...
A happy family who brought their newborn to Mary along with the grandparents were gratefully offering their gratitude for the blessing and the sight of them earnestly thanking God was very inspirational. The young mother beamed a hearty smile at me which warmed my heart and made me wish that all those childless couples who seek Mary's help would one day soon get an opportunity to visit here smiling with the happiness of their wish being fulfilled.  

On the way back rode quickly to the Lady of Hope at Vypeen before it started raining again just to have a look around. The pandemic has wrecked the small town of Vypeen just like any other town of the Pandemic hit world and as I rode back all I could think was when will this tragedy end and folks can go back to their work and means of bread, normally 

Tuesday, 1 September 2020

Third visit in the months of Pandemic

There were some visitors today on the second Onam at the lady of Ransom. 
I have hardly seen much people around the church in the last six months of which the first three have been compulsory lock down. Nice change, hopefully life will get back to normal even though the pandemic is raging. 

Though strangers, feeling happy to remember those who came to the closed church today and prayed together standing  quietly outside, everybody lost  in their own world, offering to God, in their prayers the reasons for what brought them here. 

Thank you my Lord, for the renewing spirit, which was the need of the hour, help us deal with the tolls and worries of these days. We pray your grace stays with us and help us in thinking and doing what ought to be. 
 

Sunday, 30 August 2020

Pandemic or not...

 With due credits to the one who wrote this;


Pandemic or Not…

The Pandemic has broken us,

Took away our jobs, means of bread,

Tearing down our dreams, everything,

That we have ever worked for.

 

Years of Study, hard work, blown away,

With the collapse of the world, to whose,

Ways we have adapted reluctantly, to feed and cloth,

Those who trusted us to live with.

 

The Pandemic has not made us afraid of death,

But of a life and living, afraid of being,

Turned to a speck of dust on the floor, to be swept off,

And dumped in the bin not to die but to live rotting in the heart.

 

We look upto you Lord, the one Who rose from the dead,

We trust in You, who knows panic and helplessness,

Strengthen our thoughts and bless our hearts,

To find opportunity in nothing and turn it into reality.

 

Bless our spirit, with strength and dare,

To drive away the demons of destruction clawing down,

Our confidence and belief, Help us Rise again,

Pure and Joyful, to be the man and woman you want us to be,

Pandemic or not…

B. Thomas, August, 2020


Sunday, 16 August 2020

Vallarpadam

Another visit to church during the pandemic induced post lock down troubled days.

The church continues to be closed to prevent the social spread of the virus. 
The never empty church and its candle stands stand bare except for the occasional visits of the parishoners. 
The national Shrine and pilgrimage centre, St. Mary's Basilica, hardly have any memory of being this empty and closed for so long. I wonder how it was in 1920 when a similar pandemic 'The Spanish Flu' choked the world, especially the port cities and coastal areas of India. 

A prayer for the day!

Everyday is a journey. At the end of the day we are grateful for the joy and sorrow. Tomorrow is another day, we don't know what we will have or not have. Always cherish the moment, the present for what ever it is...and do not forget the ONE to whom we are eternally bound . 
Best wishes to every one who are going through the Corona induced difficult times. 
" May we know what to think and what to do..." we pray God please grant us the grace, we ask this in name of our Lord Jesus. 

Saturday, 8 August 2020

"The Idiots"

I am a nobody and has nothing, but I know Jesus you came for folks like me. 

This was our attitude even before Pandemic anxiety and joblessness made our belly groan with acid. 

Why should we be afraid, what do we have to loose, we were living a day at a time always, for what reason we should be worried now?

Buckle up comrades, be happy and be at peace, not our will but His prevails. Let us take it, whatever it is and live it. 

Picture from a week ago, at Vallarpadam, where church is closed, still 'some' come ..


Sunday, 30 June 2019

A sunny Day

The cyclone Vayu took our monsoon away. Ever since the cyclone retreated our rain has stopped.
The day was very warm and bright at Vallarpadam.
The parish church was decorated beautifully to celebrate someone's dream coming true :)

First Rain 2019

I was at Vallarpadam when the first rain of the monsoon came pouring down.

The summer heat had become unbearable and the thrashing rain was a welcome change. 

To watch the rain from the Marian Tower was a wonderful experience. The wall after wall of raindrops stretching all the way to the Arabian sea across the vastness of the back water. 

The church looked majestic and lonely in the rain. 

Monday, 19 March 2018

...Past the day and the task!


The day was hot and humid. When I reached the Lady of Ransom the 11.30 mass was just about starting. Even though the heat was whipping my concentration very badly the Sunday reading took all my heart. The disciples were informing Jesus about the Greeks who had come to see Him and in response what Jesus tells the disciples rather as a discourse than as a reply reveals how much Jesus was aware the way His teachings would be accepted by the rest of the world and rejected by many Jews for whom He had come. Since my Lent thoughts was around the social and political back ground of Israel in the time of Jesus, this reading was of a special interest to me. 


I guess my mind was feeling jerky not really 'cos of the heat of the sun, but rather for the bombardment of the emotional stress I have been taking for a dead line I had to meet soon. Inspite of all my efforts I was not in control  of the situation and needed divine help to get past the task I had to face and win in the next few days. Though my faith was strong and I believed with all my heart that I would go past the day and the task successfully, I still didn't know how. The uncertainty has kicked my peace out, though I looked and behaved cool. 

Blessed are you Adonai, our Lord, the creator of the universe. Thank you for sending Jesus to us. Thank you Jesus for glorifying your Father and being our way and truth to Him. Thank you Apostles for bring the Gospel to us, the men and women of far and wide. 

This day, we pray, Father, help all of us, who are facing difficult situations in life, help us with the wisdom to trust in You, the creator of everything. In Jesus name we ask and pray. 

We believe Adonai, You will help us go past the day and task and we will continue to worship and thank You the day and the next just like our forefathers have. 


Saturday, 16 December 2017

A morning tea with a stranger in the Christmas month

An old man who sat by my side at church in the morning had a sad heart. I didn't feel like he had much to pray for when we were pouring our hearts out through the mass and Mary's Novena, later. 

I invited him for a tea after the service, he came gladly clutching a bottle of water he filled from the drinking water tap at the church. 

Over the tea,  I asked him about his life. Close to 75 he is an unmarried old man who is living with his sister who is just a few years younger to him in an old house nearby the church. A mason in his younger days, today he is at the mercy of others, for sustenance and medical expenses. 

A sad story. But thank God, he had a surprisingly clear mind. 

The incident made me realise that I have grown real old. 'cos the old man's life did not stir much emotion, through the years, we have come across many such life experiences that only thought that passed my mind was to find a way to set a side something for him once in a while. 

Later, on the way back to home, I came across a childhood friend whose wife has survived a near death situation medically and has to be taken to hospital twice every week for dialysis. He did not have the resources to handle such a huge medical expenses. His tearful eyes and broken heart did shake me, eventhough I urged him to keep going with his part whole heartedly as he seemed to be breaking under the enormous emotional turmoil to see his dear wife in pain almost every hour of the day. 

A morning that started with a tea with a strange old man and ended with a tearful and broken hearted old friend, I got home rather mystified and praying in my heart;
"...My God, my life is not any different, if You choose to take me to tests, help me with the strength to climb over it gracefully."



Monday, 9 October 2017

8th day of the Feast

I couldn't, due to my work, come to the church on the feast day. As usual, the church was crowded on the feast day and the week preceding and following it. Pilgrims & devotees from far and wide and all religious background continued to visit the church on these days. As we all know, Lady of Ransom has a special place in the hearts of those who work in the sea. Such communities make their annual pilgrimage to Vallarpadam on these days. This year too, many of them were there on the day I went to the church. 

The procession after the 11.30 am mass. It went around the Rosary Park and returned to the church. 
Though it looks like ants on the church during day time, the lights were beautiful at night. 

My blessing this year was to know more about the Saint Peter Nolasco. An year earlier I had a dream in which I saw Saint Peter Nolasco standing at the altar of the church. I didn't know the saint then, on enquiry the church staff had told me that we have a statue of the saint in the church. On this feast day, I found the statue beautifully decorated and his name written in bold letters at the bottom. More about the saint in a later post. 
The best drink to have at any time of the day. Sugar Cane Juice are nutritious and very organic, unless the vendor contaminates it. The latest machine and technology make the juice maker's job easy and the waiting less for the thirsty. 
The feast of Our Lady falls in the month of "Kanni" which is called the best month in our Malayalam Calendar. Neither rainy nor summer, just the mild weather of Kerala. 
The Unmistakeable icons of the feast, the status quo accompaniments of the Church and the feast.

One more year, My Lord, I have come to the feast with my grand mother, that is the first visit I could remember and to all the feasts after that when I was home and here in Kerala. 
My Lord and My God, I pray bless all those who seek you with the grace and knowledge to live by You and live in your peace and Joy. 
Amen. 


Monday, 8 June 2015

Cool breeze

One of the good things about Vallarpadam church is its ventillation. The wind from the sea keeps the church cool always, no matter how long we sit there especially while fasting, one wont feel tired. With beautiful canopies around the church which have added to the convenience certainly, has some how blocked the wind. We feel it instantly.

Thursday, 16 April 2015

Vishu

The whole day was beautiful with divine sunlight on Vishu. The sky was blue and clear, a summer treat.

Sunday, 28 December 2014

Do Not Give Up!

Easy to say. Give up what?

We have decided to walk The Way. The way will keep us away from the "Mayas" of life which can take us up or bring us down. That is the way our human minds are. We are designed that way.

The Way, make us-help us look at Life in a different way. Not the ability to control events from happening or not happening, but the blessing to react to events differently from our default.

Abraham is an example, Job is an inspiration, there are plenty in the Bible; stories that can keep us whole.

May our Mind has the Grace to be with Him always and in everything.



Sunday, 15 June 2014

Monsoon Sunday

The Sunday after the feast of Holy Ghost. Vallarpadam Church was beautifully decorated. I did not take my camera. What a miss.

The blue pearls of serial lights glowed all over the main hall. The altar was decorated with more flowers and fresh covers over every table top.

The Portuguese image of Mary was placed in the middle of the main tower at the entrance. 

Since the festive mass on the 8th day of the feast was celebrated at length, the 11.30 am mass was at 12. Since the schools were opened the worshipers were less today.

Twice it rained, giving all of us the rich feel of the the strength and boldness of the monsoon at Vallarpadam. Sky cleared quickly both the times. 

Met a local committee member who gave me some information about Meenakshi Amma. There is a book available there now, written by Fr. Joseph Thottath, which has some history of the Church.

It is nice to see the Hindu family still has some connection with certain rituals of the church. I wish it continues that way forever. The symbol of our Kochi society's harmony and brotherhood.

The annual trolling ban started yesterday and there were many boats moored infront of the church. Another beautiful sight and a great photo opportunity.

Prayer of the season

Monsoon is on. For the fishing folks in Kochi, life has become little tougher.

Life for everyone, brings tough times. May we all have the strength and grace to deal with it positively. May we not even lose a moment worrying over what we are going to do, how we are going to deal with situations etc..

Let us bind our life in faith, God provides, He keeps, He leads..

Amen.