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Sunday, 20 July 2025

A poem

 Karkidakam

Hey there, Monsoon—
You found your way.
Wasn’t sure you’d show up,
With the world all talk of change and doom,
And skies too shy to make room.

But here you are, all gale and tide,
Storming in with your winds wide,
Like that brother who never calls ahead—
Just barges in, well-fed and wet.

You’ve brought that smell—
Of Kerala soil and mango spell,
Of sambar brewing, warm and thick,
Of old Cochin with memory slick.

The kids sleep deep, they dodge the bell,
Old men rock with tales to tell.
And women at windows, quiet as mist,
Think of Sita and what we missed.

You’re not just rain.
You’re not just grey.
You’re Karkidakam—the soul’s pathway.
A hymn, a vow, a whispered psalm,
A breath held deep in Ramayan calm.

You’re the month that bends our knees,
That calls the chants into the breeze.
Though roads flood and clothes don’t dry,
You teach us still to look up high.

So stay a while. Don’t rush past.
We’ve got some mantras meant to last.
Some tears to shed, some hearts to mend,
Some broken prayers we’d like to send.

And yes, the tea is hot and sweet.
Pull up a chair, rest your feet.
Just try not to break us as you bless,
O sacred month of heaviness.

First Sunday Karkidakam 2025


Not much difference from the picture posted a few weeks ago at the start of Monsoon. We have been rained in since then. The month of Karkidakam which bear the seriousness and the brunt of monsoon is here. This year the month has arrived in all its old Glory. Pouring and consistent just like in old days. 
The church was not that crowded and smelled of damp. Sunday best wet with rain drops. 

Tuesday, 1 July 2025

Oh! Pops, guide me...




A Baptism in progress on Sunday 29 June 2025
The church wasn’t crowded today, yet I still couldn’t find a place to sit for the 11:30 am service. The seating was full.

So I made my way to the Adoration Hall — a recent extension to the main church. Clean tiled floors, plenty of lights, and enough electric fans. It has a certain neatness, but also a temporary feeling to it. Perhaps that’s why I never prayed there before. Today was the first time.

I found myself sitting at the back, on the floor, leaning against the wall. Polyester pants — not the best choice. I kept slipping as I tried to stay in that leaning position, legs stretched out fully in front of me. But I stayed.

This church is many hundreds of years old, dedicated to the Holy Ghost. Generations have prayed here. The Adoration Hall, though new, is still part of this sacred space. And today, despite the slipping and discomfort, I prayed.

I started slowly, whispering the Adonai prayer — the one we’re supposed to say a hundred times a day. As I repeated the words, something within me grew still. The prayer deepened. The intensity grew. And slowly, I reached that final, quiet realisation.

I remembered what Jesus said during His trial. He declared He is the Son of God — not only that, He also promised that they will see Him return, seated at the right hand of the Father. And then… He died. And He rose again. And He consecrated His Body and Blood — His everlasting sacrifice — for the forgiveness of sin.

These four truths I believe with all my heart. And if I believe this, truly believe, then my prayers will be heard. That is His promise. As I thought about this, it filled me — this fierce, humbling hope. I could feel its power settle into me.

Yes, I had lost the opportunity God gave me — the work that came my way. If that loss was my mistake, I admit it. I learn the lesson. Maybe I’m not meant for jobs. Maybe I’m meant to do something on my own. But I confess, after giving up that job, the guilt lingered. How could I stand before God? How could I pray for new things when I let opportunities slip away, one after another?

But I know this much — at that job, I had no problems with anyone, except one. I can say it to You, my God — it was that man and his attitude. Real men do not blame others. Huh! 

Creator of the Universe, I believe in You. If I am to do something on my own, let it come my way. Make it clear. Give me the strength to rise and get on with it, as soon as possible.

I believe in you  Jesus. Amen.

Sunday, 15 June 2025

A very rainy day...

Here are some pictures from the church at Vallarpadam...
The grey sky and the white painted church
Rosary park and the iconic flag post at the end..
The candles near the Meenakshi chapel..
The festive Parasols for the feast of Holy Ghost...
The altar parapet lights somehow reminded the fonts of the film Dunes. 
There were only very few people at the church. Rain kept the crowd away. 

Thursday, 1 May 2025

Saint Joseph

 

"The Carpenter's Recollection" 

I was born in Bethlehem, city of David, the city of my ancestors. But I left it behind, carrying little more than my tools and my dreams. Bethlehem had memory, yes, but not enough work for a man trying to make an honest living. Nazareth, though small and rough around the edges, offered opportunity. The Romans were building, and so were the Herodians—roads, fortresses, palaces. Just a short journey from the growing city of Sepphoris, Nazareth drew tradesmen like me who could shape wood, stone, and future.

In Nazareth, I hoped to shape more than just wood. I hoped to find a life of peace, of purpose. And then I met her—Mary. There was a stillness about her, a strength that didn't demand attention but drew it nonetheless. I saw in her someone who could make a home out of a workshop, a family out of faith.

Then came the moment that shook the ground beneath me.

She was with child. And I was not the father.

I will not pretend that I understood. No man would. I felt betrayed, bewildered—until the dream came. The angel didn’t explain everything. Just enough: “Do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife.” It was enough. I trusted the voice, and more than that, I trusted her.

What followed was not easy. Whispers followed us through the market. Gossip curls its way through small towns like smoke, and it choked me more than once. But we stayed. We worked. We waited.

Then came the census. We returned to Bethlehem—not for celebration, but registration. Mary was heavy with child, and I was heavy with worry. I knocked on door after door, but no one opened. I was a carpenter, not a man of standing. And so, we ended up where the animals slept. There, in the straw and silence, I held the light of the world in my arms.

No midwife, no priest. Just me, trying to comfort Mary, trying to swaddle the impossible in cloths I had sewn myself.

And then, danger. Herod’s blade came hunting. I had another dream—Egypt. I gathered what little we had and ran. A man will do anything to keep his family safe, even cross deserts into strange lands.

Egypt was not welcoming. Foreign tongue, foreign gods, no kin to turn to. But I found work—odd jobs, heavy lifting, doors to fix, wheels to mend. I stood outside temples I did not enter, waiting for someone to need a hammer or hands. I found bread. I made sure we had enough.

We returned when it was safe, but never quite the same. I raised Jesus in Nazareth, where people never forgot the odd beginnings. Still, I taught Him my craft—how to work with patience, with care, how to respect each grain in the wood, each rhythm in life.

I am remembered as “the just man.” But I was just a man—working, wondering, waiting. What carried me through was not strength or certainty, but love. Love for Mary. Love for the boy who grew into the world’s hope. And love for the quiet dignity of honest work.


Historical Note:

Nazareth in the 1st century was a modest village in Galilee, but it was close to Sepphoris—a Romanized city undergoing heavy construction during the time of Joseph’s life. Historians believe this could have drawn skilled laborers from surrounding areas. Unlike Bethlehem, which had political and religious significance but limited economic opportunity, Nazareth’s proximity to Roman urban projects made it attractive for tradesmen like Joseph.


A Message for Today:

To those seeking work, facing rejection, or holding families together on small wages—Joseph's journey is yours too. Quiet, faithful persistence. Work done in the background. Love that builds futures out of uncertainty. In a world that praises flash and fame, may you find strength in the steady hands of the carpenter.


 

Monday, 23 December 2024

Last Sunday before the Christmas of 2024

A picture tour
The Meenakshi Amma Chapel
The grape vine infront of the sacristy.
The five hundred years logo at the new church.
Thanks giving mementos infront of Mary of Vallarpadam.
A memeno for the Holy Spirit to whom the Basilica is dedicated. Very thoughtful of the donor.
A very beautiful view of the Clear blue December sky.. East of the cemetery.
The front door decoration. A warm welcome to all.
History of the church.
Thr Child Jesus
Mary 
The altar on the last Sunday before the Christmas of 2024.
Posted for all the Ransomed 'Slaves' of Mary, who could not be at Vallarpadam. 
God bless you all, wherever you are...whatever you do. 

Monday, 25 November 2024

People come and goes, 
Thousands at Vallarpadam every day. Some intense and focussed,
 On their purpose of their visit, 
Some a general visitor,
 Some happy at the stage of their lives, And showing it, 
Some who have nothing still happy like,
Fools not asking anything, enjoying the moment of being there in their soul..

Who am I in these..

A November Sunday

Kneeling in gratitude after a long week at Lady of Ransom, Vallarpadam. The peace and joy one feels while being there inspite of life and circumstances are priceless and for that one travels miles. 
Candles. The few on the  lower right is mine. I was not particular in lighting candles at Vallarpadam till a few months ago. I thought lighting oil lamps at home was good enough. Then I got an advice from a spiritually elderly person, when one is specific about certain intentions one has to follow certain rituals and tune the mind and prayers accordingly.
Thanks giving for being able to build a house. Expressiin of gratitude and thanks for the blessings received is a great motivation for others who are in difficult situations to stay strong in their prayers. 
"There is no better prayer than having a grateful mind."
 A note of gratefulness. The best I have read on this Sunday. These are always left by the devotees in front of the Sub Altar of the church. They are deeply enriching and brings peace and joy to mind. It is also a social history of how families grow and how noble some of them are in their aspirations. I found this note very enlightening, their request for peace and harmony in the family and general well being of everyone finishing off with a request to be able to to write a note of gratitude every time they visit the Basilica. The writer probably is a piligrims who might have come from far. 

Monday, 4 November 2024

Saint Peter Nolasco

Saint Peter Nolasco's disciples were part of those who built the Vallarpadam Church in 1524 AD. They dedicated the church to the Holy Spirt and Made the Lady of Ransom (Mercy) as the saint of the church. Nearly 140 years later the first church was washed away in a flood, the Lady of Ransom Picture was found floating  in the Backwater by the then Prime Minister of Kochi Raja who returned the picture to the priests and donated a new piece of land to build a new church. Saint Peter Nolasco's disciples are again believed to be part of the reconstruction team. The Altar still holds the venerable picture and the Saint Peter Nolasco's congregational logo. BMV de Mercede. 

On All Saints Day and through the month of November when we remember our dead, we remember all those Saint Peter Nolasco followers along with all other souls who have been responsible for our faith and our continued existence here at Vallarpadam. 

Lady Of Ransom

Our weekly visit to your abode is our joy and delight. We pray Lady of Mercy that hear our prayers and help us with our lives. Bless all who seek your help.
Ten minutes before the 11.30 AM Mass by the Mercedarian Priests the church slowly 
filling up. That mass is usually attended by the pilgrims who visit the Basilica on a Sunday.
Our favourite from the corner shop at the turn from the highway to the Basilica on the old road. Pappadams and puttu.

All Souls Day

All Souls Day. 
In memory of our dead, they are gone but they still lives on in our hearts and will continue to live in our memory till the day we die. 
Fondly remembering those who came and lived with us, giving up their families and everything for us. May their souls Rest in Peace. 
Remembering our dead. 
The November blue sky. The specialty of the time of the year. 

Sunday, 1 July 2018

Sunday Grace

Trolling ban during the month of June & July are keeping the boats idle. 

It was a beautiful Sunday in our Monsoon. Sunny and warm. The world Cup 2018 FIFA foot ball cup is on in Russia and last night was the match between Argentina and France. Since we had grown watching Maradona and his men winning the 1986 world cup for his country we are sentimentally attached to the Argentinian team. They lost to France 3-4 in a tense last 16 knock-out round match. 

The late night had got me late in waking up and when I reached Vallarpadam eventually it was nearing  2' o clock. I saw these beautiful boats all neatly tied up near the jetty by the flag post. Surprisingly, the air was so still, none of the boats moved at all. 

Beata Teresa Manganiello
Last Sunday a last minute call to work took me away for most of the day and I couldn't come to Vallarpadam. I missed the bliss the whole week and had slowed down quite a bit during the middle of the week. I was hoping to come in between during the week, but couldn't, some of the days it was raining very hard. So today, I was very focused and attentive with my meditative thanks giving and weekly breakups of events. I did that very earnestly. After the quite time, I was looking around when I came across this beautiful box with the picture of Teresa Manganiello by the window sill. My curiosity made me open the box and I found a light colored wooden cross inside. Someone's parents safe keep  which they have left here, perhaps after the dear one died.

The Italian nun is a very popular saint, even movies are made after her; you can read more about her at Beata Teresa Manganiello (click the name).


After the vegetarian lunch at Meenakshi Restaurant I came back and sat in the portico converted prayer hall. The Sunlight was perfect and the statue of Meenakshi Amma offering herself and her child to Mary came out well in the picture I took. Since the statue deck has been cleared recently there were hardly any thanks giving note. 




Just before the 4pm Tamil mass started I sat outside in the courtyard enjoying the afternoon breeze from the Arabian Sea which was very calming and soothing to the soul and body. The Vallarpadam special. 

It was a beautiful day, the time of the year when the Monsoon regulates the crowd, the church looked spacious and meditative with limited devotees in and around who greeted each other very warmly. 

Thank you Lord, for making me grateful for the week and work that went by and helping me look forward hopefully to the coming one by making me organize in thought what to do. Dear Jesus, the Sunday blessing is graciously appreciated. 

Monday, 21 May 2018

The Pentecost

I was looking forward to the day since Easter. I like the big candle they used to light in every church from Easter and wanted to photograph as many as possible in different churches I go to before  Pentecost. I did take some, but not many. 

They have a new flyover infront of the Basilica on the highway. Now, if we are coming from Ernakulam we have to go much forward and take the U-Turn from under the flyover and drive back to the church. Safe, though many who come to the church continue to take a right turn infront of the church the way they used to do earlier before the flyover. Unsafe and causes traffic block. 


The feast of the Holy Ghost was on at the Church. As we know when the Portuguese Missionaries started this church in 1524 it was dedicated to the Holy Ghost. It could be the first church in Asia dedicated to the Holy Spirit according to the church notification. Naturally, Pentecost, which is the beginning of the history of the church should be a big celebration at our church. But somehow the celebrations are there but not as big as the Mary's feast in September. 


In Jewish traditions there are three compulsory pilgrimages to Jerusalem temple the Jews have to undertake no matter where ever they are settled. "Shavout" or The Pentecost is one of them which is the fiftieth day from Passover. Galileans like Jesus and disciples had come to Jerusalem for the Pessach and it was during one of those pilgrimages when Jesus was caught and killed. After The Resurrection Jesus had instructed the disciples to be in Jerusalem. So when the Shavout arrived the disciples and Mary was in Jerusalem preparing for the festival. Mostly Shavout is a two day festival which celebrates the receiving of ten commandments by Moses from God nearly 3300 years ago. Women and children light candles and lamps at home while men will stay over at night awake in the synagogue and study Torah and read the book of Ruth. Since Shavout is also coinciding with the harvest of wheat its also a harvest festival when the Israelites offered the first fruit of their harvest to the temple. The offering included the first born of men and cattle also. 

Naturally Jerusalem and the temple was crowded when the incidents of The Pentecost occurred. The arrival of  Holy Spirit with the sound of storm and the disciples beginning to speak in many tongues. Many scholars comments that was the beginning of the church history too. 

An old offering box at the church. I like the simple, yet creatively crafted wooden box, still very well taken care of. 

Wish you all the blessing and grace of the Pentecost. May the breath Jesus breathed upon the disciples continue to live through us and help us carry our crosses and follow the One who came in the name of the Father. 

Bless you Adonai, Bless you Jesus, Thank you Mary & Apostles. 




Monday, 23 October 2017

Tomorrow never dies

The month of Rosary. At vallarapdam, the chant of Rosary is the background score at any time of the day. 
A new car being blessed at the church. For such events they let the vehicles in through the East Gate. 
The pandhal is still on after the festivities of the last month. 

The north gate to the Rosary Park

But today certainly does.

I do not know how many tomorrows I have.
These pictures are from Sunday before the last. I couldn't post them all through last week as the work got me tight and didn't gave me much time for anything else.

I didn't want to let go of these pictures, its the todays of my life and it's what I saw at Vallarpadam.
So here its my friends.

Lady of Ransom, deliver me from all bondages that is holding me back from living the way and enjoying the true happiness.

Thank you Lord for the work in the week and the bread it brought.

May everyone have work and the mind and health to do it well.

Monday, 9 October 2017

Mission Congress & Basic Christian Community Convention

View of the church from the East on 8th October, 2017
Mission Congress and the Basic Christian Community Convention was conducted at Vallarpadam on 6th, 7th & 8th. Nearly 4000 members participated in the congress and convention representing the communities from all over Kerala. The event is without precedence in the history of the Latin Catholic Church of Kerala. There could not be a better venue than Our Lady of Ransom's Basilica at Vallarpadam for such a big gathering. 


After the lunch everybody who had come from the different diocese of Kerala, spent some time quietly, inside the old Basilica. Up in the front in the red waist band is the secretary of Congregation for Evangelisation of people from Vatican Arch Bishop Protase Rugambwa and sitting along side His Excellency is our Archbishop Kalathiparambil.
Their humility and grace was such a blessing to see and experience. 
RLCC's publication stall at the venue. They had some very good books to sell at a very discounted rate. 
Convention & Congress concluded with a high mass celebrated by the Archbishops and the Bishops of the church. 
Mary's statue which was taken out for display during the two weeks of celebration of the feast was back inside the church in its usual place. 
Starting from the Marian Pilgrimage its been a month of celebration at Vallarpadam, with the retreat then the feast and now the convention and congress. The Diocesan administrators, the Rector, church members and the staff and a team of volunteers worked very hard to make everything a success.

May God Bless you all. May the light at Our Lady of Ransom at Vallarpadam burn ever brightly and those who seek her blessing find Peace and Joy of our Jesus in life.



8th day of the Feast

I couldn't, due to my work, come to the church on the feast day. As usual, the church was crowded on the feast day and the week preceding and following it. Pilgrims & devotees from far and wide and all religious background continued to visit the church on these days. As we all know, Lady of Ransom has a special place in the hearts of those who work in the sea. Such communities make their annual pilgrimage to Vallarpadam on these days. This year too, many of them were there on the day I went to the church. 

The procession after the 11.30 am mass. It went around the Rosary Park and returned to the church. 
Though it looks like ants on the church during day time, the lights were beautiful at night. 

My blessing this year was to know more about the Saint Peter Nolasco. An year earlier I had a dream in which I saw Saint Peter Nolasco standing at the altar of the church. I didn't know the saint then, on enquiry the church staff had told me that we have a statue of the saint in the church. On this feast day, I found the statue beautifully decorated and his name written in bold letters at the bottom. More about the saint in a later post. 
The best drink to have at any time of the day. Sugar Cane Juice are nutritious and very organic, unless the vendor contaminates it. The latest machine and technology make the juice maker's job easy and the waiting less for the thirsty. 
The feast of Our Lady falls in the month of "Kanni" which is called the best month in our Malayalam Calendar. Neither rainy nor summer, just the mild weather of Kerala. 
The Unmistakeable icons of the feast, the status quo accompaniments of the Church and the feast.

One more year, My Lord, I have come to the feast with my grand mother, that is the first visit I could remember and to all the feasts after that when I was home and here in Kerala. 
My Lord and My God, I pray bless all those who seek you with the grace and knowledge to live by You and live in your peace and Joy. 
Amen.